By sistershan
9/3/2009 5:32:08 PM
I've just been searching online to find codependecy blogs that might provide prompts to write about to help me dig a bit deeper. I found this site. I'm grateful for that.

I am currently a facilitator of an ARP group in Michigan. I am so very blessed to be a part of this program and to attend with a wonderful group of people. I know that this is a truly inspired program and can work miracles.

I began attending for a food addiction. I've had food issues for as long as I can remember, really. I've recently added codependency, as well. I've known for many years that I was codependent and read Facing Codependence and did the workbook Breaking Free. It's time to dig them out and do it again. I've been re-reading the book, plus many more.

Healing is hard, but so very worth it. I've grown so much! And learned so much. Mostly, it's great to finally have a close relationship with my Heavenly Father, and to understand the atonement so much better.

I look forward to being an active member of this community.


"I haven't been on the site for some time, until this last week. Welcome aboard. My addictions of choice are porn, sugar, depression and anger. I am doing better on some than I am on others. Like you I had mostly focused on the one most obvious problem until I got into recovery a little ways. Then it became obvious that my anger and depression weren’t just side-effects of my addiction, but issues that needed individual focus and 12 Step work if I was going overcome them. I joked about my sugar addiction for a while after it became obvious to me. I referred to it as “Mormon Methadone”. I didn’t feel it was that big a deal because it would never come up in a recommend interview. I’ve never been too heavy, so it doesn’t appear that I have any kind of food problem. Finally I had to face the fact that if I was turning to anything, even a Baby Ruth bar when I was angry, lonely, tired or depressed instead of God, that it was a problem.

My wife is also a codependent, food addict so I can relate a bit through watching her struggle over the years.

On the bright side she is down 30 pounds right now and I haven’t had a candy bar (unless you want to count a bite-size Hershey’s bar) since March 7th.

Glad to have you aboard. The more active members the better. I think it is good to have a variety of struggles represented too. I hope the work in Michigan is going well.

Take care,
posted at 17:04:35 on September 14, 2009 by justjohn
Thank You    
"It is amazing how the program helps us to see other areas that need work, as well. I wasn't real happy at the time to add to the list, but I am grateful to know and have a chance to change it.

I did notice that there doesn't seem to be much activity on here. That's too bad. I do plan to be pretty active.

The program is growing here, but slowly. I run the first meetings in our stake and we have since added 3 or 4 more. It's a struggle to get people to come out. But, with the Lord's help, we'll touch those that need it most. That's my prayer.

Have a great day John!"
posted at 07:26:16 on September 19, 2009 by sistershan

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"I need not define your specific problem to help you overcome it. It doesn’t matter what it is. If it violates the commandments of the Lord, it comes from Satan, and the Lord can overcome all of Satan’s influence through your application of righteous principles. Please understand that the way back is not as hard as it seems to you now. Satan wants you to think that it is impossible. That is not true. The Savior gave His life so that you can completely overcome the challenges you face. "

— Richard G. Scott

General Conference May 1990