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Struggling a Little Bit
By dstanley
2/10/2011 11:36:10 PM
I'm having a little bit of a hard time. Yesterday my addiction counselor and I were discussing my faulty core beliefs and the things from my past that contributed to them. We talked about feeling like I'm not good enough and that people wouldn't like the real me. Thinking about the things it my childhood that led to those beliefs brought up a lot of emotion. Then today when I met with my other counselor we were talking about what to think about and do if I don't get the job I'm interviewing for tomorrow, and then we started talking about Valentine's day. That brings up a ton of emotions. I hate being single. I want so badly to get married again. There's a ward dance for adults tomorrow, but I don't want to go because it will just be a huge reminder of how single I am. There's a singles dance, but I know I can't, that I'm not ready. This sucks, and it is kicking up my urges.

Comments:

Don't give in    
"DSTANLEY i don't know much about your addiction but i do know that if you give in to your urges you'll be really sad after. you can do it. your doing good okay :) do something that helps like meditation, exercise do something that re-focuses your energy else where. I hope you don't slip you. your gonna make it okay. hang in there :)"
posted at 00:35:51 on February 11, 2011 by heartfelt
Thanks    
"I'm trying not to panic, but I'm scared I'm going to slip. I'm avoiding going to bed. Today's day 13, and I don't want to go back to day 1. I want to do the right thing, but the urges are high."
posted at 00:50:17 on February 11, 2011 by dstanley
Breathing Exercises    
"Breath sister D. Big long breaths, calm your body, calm your mind! Pray!"
posted at 01:31:38 on February 11, 2011 by Hero
think long term    
"Try and think about where you want to be in 5 years. Focus on what kind of life would be perfect...this will help you remember that you've got to do things right today, to be where you want in five years, married w/ your children...think how wonderful it will be to have put these struggles behind you! You can do it!"
posted at 03:12:57 on February 11, 2011 by jdean88
You have been my inspiration    
"You can do it. With Gods help you can do it. We can do it together."
posted at 07:20:45 on February 11, 2011 by nephi
Why not go to the dance?    
"You can't wait 'til your perfect to socialize. Maybe you need a social event."
posted at 11:50:26 on February 11, 2011 by Anonymous
Thank God    
"and thanks all of you. WooHoo!!!!! I made it through last night (with lots of help from God). It actually didn't end up being as bad as I thought. I fell asleep in the recliner and then I got to sleep pretty easily when I finally went to bed. I followed my plan and prayed before I got ready for bed. There was lots of pleading for help to get through this and get to sleep, and it worked. I stayed further away from the edge than I thought I'd be able to. I'm relieved and excited this morning. Today is Day 14! I made it through a tough time! I may actually be quit for good this time. Way too early to be cocky, just excited at the possibility. Thanks again everyone.
D"
posted at 11:51:23 on February 11, 2011 by dstanley
Nice!    
"Good on ya, D. ;)"
posted at 16:51:17 on February 11, 2011 by JustMe


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